DATING SAFETY TIPS

Meeting new people is exciting, but you should always be cautious when interacting with someone you don't know. Use your best judgment and put your safety first, whether you are exchanging initial messages or meeting in person. While you can't control the actions of others, there are things you can do to help you stay safe during your cupidship.com experience.

SAFETY ONLINE

Never Send Money or Share Financial Information

Never send money, especially over mobile transfer, even if the person claims to be in an emergency. Transferring money is like sending cash - it's nearly impossible to reverse the transaction or trace where the money went. Never share information that could be used to access your financial accounts. If another user ask you for money, report it to us immediately.

Protect Your Personal Information

Never share personal information, such as your BVN or NIN, home or work address, or details about your regular route with people you don't know. If you are a parent, limit the information that you share about your children on your profile and in early communications. Avoid sharing details such as your children's names, where they go to school, their ages or genders.

Stay on the Platform

Keep conversations on the cupidship.com website/App while you are getting to know someone. Users with bad intentions often try to move the conversation to Whatsapp, or other chatting apps, or Email almost immediately.

Be Wary of Long Distance and Overseas Relationships

Watch out for scammers who claim to be living oversea and coming back soon, especially if they ask for financial help for one kind of project or the other. Be wary of anyone who will not meet in person or talk on a phone/video call, they may not be who they say they are. If someone is avoiding your questions or pushing for a serious relationship without meeting or getting to know you first - that's a red flag, use the block option and report to us: [email protected]

Report All Suspicious and Offensive Behavior

You know when someone's crossed the line and when they do, we want to know about it. Block and report anyone that violates our terms. Here are some examples of violations:

• Requests for money or donations
• Underage users
• Harassment, threats, and offensive messages
• Inappropriate or harmful behavior during or after meeting in person
• Fraudulent profiles
• Spam or solicitation including links to commercial websites or attempts to sell products or services

You can report any concerns about suspicious behavior from any profile page or messaging window or contact [email protected]. For more information, check out our Guidelines.

Protect Your Account

Be sure to pick a strong password, and always be careful when logging into your account from a public or shared device.
Cupidship.com will never send you an email asking for your username and/or password information - if you receive an email asking for account information, report it immediately.

Contacting Cupidship.com

Please remember Cupidship.com will NEVER ask you for your password, to share your screen with us, or require payment to receive customer support. If you need to contact Cupidship.com, we recommend you contact us at [email protected]. Please do not call phone numbers found in a Google search - we do not provide general support over the phone, and support phone numbers found in a Google search do not belong to Cupidship.

Meeting in Person

Don't Be In A Rush
Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off cupidship.com. Don't be afraid to ask questions to help you screen for any red flags or personal deal-breakers. A call, Whatsapp, FaceTime, or Skype video call can be a useful screening tool before meeting. Don’t share personal phone number

Meet in Public and Stay in Public

Meet for the first few times in a populated, public place - never at your home, your date's home, or any other private location. If your date pressures you to go to a private location, end the date.

Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans

Tell a friend or family member about your plans, including when and where you are going. Have your phone charged and with you at all times, and keep your Data-connection and phone location active.

Be in Control of Your Transportation

We want you to be in control of how you get to and from your date so that you can leave whenever you want. If you are driving yourself, it's a good idea to have a backup plan such as a Ride-hailing app or a friend to pick you up.

Know Your Limits

Be aware of the effects of drugs or alcohol on you specifically - they can impair your judgment and your alertness. If your date tries to pressure you to use drugs or drink more than you are comfortable with, hold your ground and end the date.

Don't Leave Drinks or Personal Items Unattended

Know where your drink comes from and know where it is at all times - only accept drinks poured or served directly from the bartender or server. Many substances that are slipped into drinks to facilitate sexual assault are odorless, colorless, and tasteless. Also, keep your phone, purse, wallet, and anything containing personal information on you at all times.

If You Feel Uncomfortable, Leave Immediately.

It is okay to end the date early if you're feeling uncomfortable. In fact, it is encouraged. And if your instincts are telling you something is off or you feel unsafe, ask the bartender or server for help.

Sexual Health & Consent

Protect Yourself

When used correctly and consistently, condoms can significantly reduce the risk of contracting and passing on STI's like HIV. But, be aware of STIs like herpes or HPV that can be passed on through skin-to-skin contact. The risk of contracting some STIs can be reduced through vaccination.

Know Your Status

Not all STIs show symptoms, and you don't want to be in the dark about your status. Stay on top of your health and prevent the spread of STIs by getting tested regularly.

Talk About It

Communication is everything: Before you get physically intimate with a partner, talk about sexual health and STI testing. And be aware - It's actually a crime to knowingly pass on an STI.

Consent

All sexual activity must start with consent and should include ongoing check-ins with your partner. Verbal communication can help you and your partner ensure that you respect each other's boundaries. Consent can be withdrawn at any time, and sex is never owed to anyone. Do not proceed if your partner seems uncomfortable or unsure, or if your partner is unable to consent due to the effects of drugs or alcohol.

Resources for Help, Support, or Advice

Remember - No method of risk reduction is perfect, even if you follow all these tips. If you have a negative experience, please know that it is not your fault and help is available. Report any incidents to [email protected], and consider reaching out to your trusted law enforcement agency.

Additionally, if you are aware of anyone who violates our terms of use please report them to [email protected]