Dear Modupe,
I hope this letter finds you well and happy. I am writing to you as a friend, to share some words and encouragement with you.
I know that sometimes you feel frustrated and left out when you see everyone around you getting married, while you are still single. You wonder if there is something wrong with you, or if you are missing out on something important in life. You feel lonely and crave for someone to share your joys and sorrows with, someone to trust and love, someone to cuddle with and take matching pyjamas pictures with. I understand how you feel, because I have been there too.
But let me tell you something, my dear. You are not alone, and you are not incomplete. You are a wonderful and amazing person, who has achieved so much on your own and for yourself. You have a successful career, a supportive family, a loyal circle of friends, and a bright future ahead of you. You have so much to offer to the world, and to yourself. You don't need marriage to validate your worth or happiness. You only seek companionship, which is a natural and human desire.
And I want to assure you that your desire will be fulfilled, in due time. The right man for you is out there, somewhere, looking for you too. He is also longing for someone like you, someone who can appreciate him, support him, challenge him, and love him. When you meet him, you will know it. You will feel a connection, a compatibility, and a chemistry that will make you both happy and fulfilled. You will be a perfect match for each other.
But until then, you need to be honest and bold about your desire. You don't need to hide it or deny it. You don't need to pretend that you don't want a man in your life. You don't need to be ashamed or afraid of your feelings. You don't need to fight back or resist your nature. You need to embrace it, express it, and enjoy it.
You need to be free with your desire, and open to possibilities. You need to be willing to mingle, and meet new people. You need to be confident, and show your best self. You need to be positive, and have faith in yourself and the universe. You need to be patient, and trust the timing of your life.
And most importantly, you need to be yourself, and love yourself. You need to be proud of who you are, and what you have. You need to be grateful for what you have, and hopeful for what you will have. You need to be happy with yourself, and by yourself.
Because you are enough, my dear. You are more than enough.
And one day, you will find someone who will make you feel even more.
Until then, I am always here for you, as your friend.
With love and respect,
Captain on Cupidship
