My guy, how far na!
I decided to write this letter because I noticed you have been feeling skeptical and frustrated about this topic of finding the right woman to go into a relationship with, and I can relate to that. I was once in your shoes, too.
I know you think that all women want are gifts and expensive accessories, but that is not true. There are real women out there who are not after your money or your status. There are the ones that are working hard on their own and have become successful over time and are also seeking genuine relationship. They are not looking for someone to solve their problems or to buy them things. They are looking for someone to share their dreams and their passions with. They are looking for someone to trust with their heart and fall in love with.
That kind woman no go fit judge you by your material possessions, but by your character, your kindness, and your loyalty. She will support you, encourage you, and inspire you to be the best version of yourself. She will be your partner, your friend, and your lover. It is up to you to prove that you deserve her love. I agree there are a lot of entitled women out there looking for who to solve their life's problems, but you will know when you meet them. They will show their true colors sooner or later. You don't have to waste your time and energy on them. Leave big nyash and fine face, talk about values and aspirations. You will find out soon enough if she is compatible with you or not.
Oh, e be like say you no even sabi riz babe sef, abi na boldness to talk with woman dey fail you? Let me give you a tip, just imagine her like you are talking to "your guy", feel free, flow well and if she is your kind of person the flow will become mutual. Don't be afraid to express yourself, to ask questions, to listen, to compliment, to joke, to flirt. Be yourself, be respectful, be confident, be honest. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
I hope this letter helps you to overcome your skepticism and to find the right woman for you. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. I am always here for you, as your guy. You can always count on me for advice, support, or just a chat. I wish you all the best and I look forward to hearing from you soon.
Your friend,
Captain on Cupidship
