This letter offers some insight and guidance on how to overcome the challenges and difficulties of unrealistic or toxic relationships, and how to find and maintain a realistic and healthy relationship. The letter covers three main topics: unrealistic relationships, self-healing, and relationship choices. The letter also encourages the men to be themselves and be honest with their partner, and to remember their worth and potential.
Keep your standards high. Value yourself and your time. Always remember that you deserve to be treated well, and that you deserve the relationship you want. If someone doesn’t ring your bells, or if they do ring your bells, but aren’t offering you what you’re looking for, then it’s time to move on.
When you care deeply, when you are the kind of person who gives everything you have to those you love, it can be extremely hard to lay all of that love down.
Someday you will no longer have to face the world on your own. Someday you will no longer wake up from a bad dream in the middle of the night and wish you have someone’s hands to hold. Someday you will no longer be frightened to think that you will grow old alone.