Hey Modupe,
Remember our last chat about dating? It seems like sex comes up a lot in my conversations with women lately, just like with you. Guess what? They're all frustrated!
It's not that they don't want to have sex - quite the opposite! They crave intimacy, but dating these days is a minefield. Dating apps are filled with guys who can barely form a coherent sentence, let alone navigate a casual encounter. Safety is a huge concern too. The lack of basic sex education out there is scary, and the constant threat of STDs and UTIs is a major turn-off.
But here's the twist: it's not just about the physical. Men, like everyone else, want to feel safe emotionally. They want a respectful partner who's down for something casual, with no strings attached. Finding someone who prioritizes a healthy, no-pressure dynamic seems rare these days.
Don't get me wrong, they're not desperate. They just want sex on their terms - enjoyable, safe, and with someone they connect with, even if it's not super deep. They're affirming their sexuality and ditching the pressure to get serious every time.
The key seems to be clear communication and setting boundaries. They want partners who are upfront about casual intentions and prioritize mutual respect. By taking charge of their sexual agency, women are creating space for fulfilling experiences outside the traditional dating drama.
What do you think about this? It'd be cool to hear your take on casual intimacy and navigating a healthy sex life outside of committed relationships.
#CaptainOnCupidship
