Dear Adeshola,
I'm writing to you to express my admiration and support for your search for a life partner. I know its not easy, but I believe you have what it takes to succeed.
Its refreshing to see your commitment to doing marriage the right way and seeking a man who values and respects you for who you are. You have a clear vision of what you want and need in a relationship, and you're not willing to compromise or settle for less. You're looking for someone who is intentional, focused, and serious about building a life together. Someone who appreciates your worth and potential, without subjecting you to unnecessary tests or comparisons. Someone who shares your passions, interests, and goals, and who supports you in achieving them.
I must assure you that you have every right to choose who you want to be in a relationship with, and what you want from a relationship. You also have every right to value yourself and your dignity, and to not let anyone treat you poorly or take you for granted. You are a strong, smart, and beautiful woman, and you deserve to be loved and respected for who you are.
I'm sorry if you have faced any difficulties or discrimination because of your age, gender, or marital status. I know how frustrating and hurtful it can be to deal with such ignorance and prejudice. But I also know how courageous and resilient you are, and how you dont let these factors limit or define you.
Its unfortunate that societal expectations sometimes limit the understanding of love and partnerships. Some people may have traditional or religious views on marriage and gender roles, and they may pressure or judge women who are not married by a certain age. Some people may also have unrealistic or superficial standards of beauty, success, or happiness, and they may overlook or undervalue the qualities that truly matter in a lasting relationship.
You are more than your age, gender, or marital status. You are a unique and valuable person, with your own personality, interests, and goals. You have a lot to offer to the world, and to your future partner. You have the right to pursue your happiness and fulfillment, whether in marriage or not. You have the right to express your opinions and preferences, and to seek a partner who shares them.
Finding a life partner is not an easy or simple task. It requires patience, effort, and compatibility. It's a good thing that you are putting yourself out there, but you may not find the right person that you desire this way. There are many qualities to look for in a partner, such as trust, communication, respect, empathy, and loyalty. However, there is no one perfect partner, and different people may have different opinions and priorities in a relationship. What makes a good partner for one person may not necessarily be the same for another. Therefore, finding a compatible partner takes time and exploration, and it's important to remember that there is no one-size-fits-all approach.
With that in mind, I suggest that you keep an open and positive attitude when looking for a life partner. You may have some standards and expectations, but you may also be flexible and realistic. You may have some criteria and requests, but you may also be respectful and understanding. You may have some preferences and goals, but you may also be curious and adventurous. You may have some challenges and pressures, but you may also have some opportunities and support.
I hope this helps you understand some of the facts and perspectives on marriage and life partner. I'm always here for you, as your friend and confidant. If you have any questions or comments, please feel free to chat with me. I would love to hear from you and know how you are doing.
You are a wonderful person, and you deserve to be happy and fulfilled. I'm proud of you, and I'm rooting for you. Please take good care of yourself, and don't give up on your dreams.
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